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When asked why you want to work,

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发表于 2018-7-8 14:24:18 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
When asked why you want to work, you must say rubbish at this time, in order to earn money! I don't want to earn money. I have to work. I'm sick. But maybe someone will say it's for fun! I'm for a sense of achievement! So, all these answers are true. But there is an answer. Very few people will mention why you have to work. It's because you want to be "needed".
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The need for feeling is the need of human emotions

We have all heard of workaholic, overwork, many people intuitively think that he has a vicious boss behind him, take a whip to him, let him work every day, he is forced to be forced. But have you ever thought that he might be addicted to his work?

Sometimes, this stuff is really like opium. Once you are obsessed with the feeling of being needed, you have to ensure that there is a certain dose to stimulate them. A lot of workaholics don't go home from work. Why?  Because there might not be a need for him at home. He is not at home. He does his homework by himself. His wife watches TV on their own, and the cat licks its hair. But at work, everyone needs him, and he can't do without him. This is the most satisfying thing in the world.

Ma Dong: work is not necessarily to make money
So many of us often fail to realize that the best job in the world is to have more money and less work and get away from home. Not necessarily, do not believe me to give you an example.

If you have a group of friends, you can eat hot pot at home. Then this group of people, Zhang fat is responsible for washing dishes, Li cannabis is responsible for cutting meat, Zhao Tietou is responsible for adjusting seasoning, Wang Er egg is responsible for buying drinks downstairs. And you come out at this time and say, what about me? What can I do? As a result, everyone is very polite to say, ah, you, you don't have to do anything, you are responsible for eating.
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After that, everyone was busy two hours from beginning to end, and you sat there and had nothing to do. I ask you, are you cool? So listen, you will say, of course I am cool, I will be responsible for eating. But if you have such experience, I tell you, you may be on pins and needles.

The last meal, you eat is entangled, because what? Because you feel that you are not needed in this group. Although you eat hot pot, you may mutter at last, I will not come again next time.

Work is not necessarily to make money

At work, there are several situations that are terrible, such as sitting on a bench, being put up, or simply giving you a free ride. Because it means that no one needs you, and you have little value for the company. No value, sometimes it is more painful than no price.

Those who jumped from the building had nine in ten, not because they had no price, but because they felt that their value was not there. If you hear this, you will retort that my job is, of course, to earn money first. If the money is not earned enough, what is the value? I tell you, not necessarily.

Ma Dong: work is not necessarily to make money
There is a report that there is an old lady in Japan who has opened a buffet restaurant for more than 20 years. It has not gone up. It has been 500 yen, about more than 30 yuan RMB. There was little profit. Why did she do this?

The old lady said, I just want everyone to spend a lot of money to eat happily. She may not make any money, but every day she sees a smiling face of these customers and hears the customer's thanks, which supports her hard work for more than 20 years.

In our words, it is because she feels the need. Things like this are really not Japanese, and China is also many. Why are so many people going to be volunteers? He has this time, he is going to get a job and earn some money, isn't it better? So we can see that if we can get the feeling we need, sometimes we would rather not make money.

Ma Dong: work is not necessarily to make money
So many new people in the workplace have a common problem. They say that my work is a low-level repetitive work, especially boring. If I look at this problem, I will think that perhaps it is not that the work itself is too boring, but that they do not feel that they are needed.

For example, it is also a repetitive worker. You are a worker. You work on a leather shoe assembly line, so you think this job may be boring. But if you make shoes in a small workshop, shop in front, then the guests are waiting in front of you to wait for your shoes.

So, a pair of leather shoes made, put to the door, and immediately someone to say, oh, oh, great, your shoes are too good, I line up for a long time, thank you master! In this way, you must work harder and harder. So the feeling of doing the same thing is completely different.

The feeling of being needed is also a kind of self-control emotion.
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Your emotions, your own responsibility. The feeling of being needed is also an emotion. You can take the initiative to look for such a feeling of need. In particular, how to look for it? Teach you three words and look out.

You think your job is boring, worthless, and not being felt. It's because your eyes are always looking inside. What you see is what is in your hands, and if you want to get the feeling of being needed, you have to look out of your eyes and see who the job really serves.

There was a young man who told me about his trouble at work. He is a clerk in the government department, so most of his working hours are the people who work in front of him. place

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